How can I pinch this distress away?
I was engaged until fifteen days ago. I broke up with my fiancee 'cause we have many communications problems and he wasn't able to work on them. Besides, he depends too much on his family, we live contained by different provinces, and he didn't want to move from out of his family's house. His mother passed away a month ago, which makes things more difficult. I have tried to deal near him, but there was no way he could relocate his mind. We broke up 15 days ago, now I have found I am pregnant. I told him that we should be together for the baby, not contained by a romantic way, and give us the time to find out if we can work in the relationship latter on. He said no, he doesn't want to know anything about me or the baby, and he is behaving as a complete contract. I have tried so many times to reach him, but he is so proud and rude. I am within so much pain right now, I thought I knew him, but very soon I know I didn't, how can I take this pain away and move on for my baby's sake?
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time is your cure on this one. so sorry for your situation
good luck
You want to give him some time, he's going through a very traumatic period surrounded by his life. His mother passing doesn't make things more "difficult" it make things very horrible for him and very complicated. Have a little compassion for him and be merciful!
He wishes time to get over his mom. Sounds like they were super close I know I wouldn't be "o.k" after a month if my mom died. His house is his sanctuary blanket right now. As far as the baby, I wouldn't be with him "simply for the baby". The chances of that working out are very slim. If its meant to be, its intended to be. He needs to focus on him and whats important to him right now. And you obligation to do the same. I'm sure it must be tough since what's important to you wants zilch to do with you. I hope that your situation gets better....quick. I'm sure that once you start going through your pregnancy, he will come around.
I am so sorry to hear about this dreadful situation. From a guy's perspective I am able to confirm next to you that its his responsibility to show you love as you know it and not reject you this way. I shall leave you with this thought. It is terrifically very important that you do not reject your baby. Even by thought surrounded by your mind, your baby will feel it and will know it in spirit. he/she will grown up to be an angry entity and the cycle will continue. Get a bible and pray. God will heal your hurt... time wont.
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