Please serve me. I am so hurt at this point?
I need some help.
I met a woman (chinese) in April of 2008. I pursued her because I thought she be very cute. To my suprize, chinese women do not wear a wedding ring so I thought she was single.
As it turns out she be not single, and I did not realize it, subseqeuntly i then seduced her. We fell in love and had like mad of sex; but unprotected sex on a few occasions. This is over a period of 13 months. As a result, and my viriality, I got her pregnant. She told me on a few occasions that she is only in her wedding ceremony for convience. She told me that she only had sex on very scarce occasions with her husband becuase of me. She now tell me that she wants to have an abortion, but i recently talk to her on the phone and she was very cold and distant to me and she told me that she has not have it yet (m,y seed is precious :) ). This is already over 2 months since she missed her period.
This is a huge nightmare for me I stipulation some help and advice. Your advice is munificently appreciated. :)
Answers:
ither run (drive) near her to somplace far away or tell her to devorce i don't think haveing an abortion is the best answer
maybe listen to what she wishes and help her with whatever she wishes.. that is if you really care about her.
and for yourself if you really love her.. next fight for her. obviously she didnt love her husband from your story.. but maybe her husband loves her and that might be a concrete pain for him too.
my advice is just to settle about it like an adult. that child surrounded by her belly needs lots of love when hes born and he dont deserve to be born in a broken family.
If she is still having sex with her husband, I'd be really concerned about who the father is. She tell YOU she's not having sex that often with him, but you would be foolish to believe that. She's prominently not a woman who can be trusted. Besides, even if she isn't having much sex with her husband, all it take is one time to become pregnant. I can understand that you wouldn't want her aborting the baby if it's yours, but at equal time you have no way of knowing if you're the father at this early stage. All you can do is try to communicate her into keeping it, but the reality is it's her choice. But I feel for you.
Good job man. Source(s): FCUK YEAR
Ask her what she plans to do beside the baby. If she plans on having it, you need to integer out parental custody, financial plans, etc...
She may also tell her husband, or not. See what she plans to do about him.
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