Is this suppost to appear when its your first time? ?
ive never worn tampons and im 14.
but about a week ago, i got fingered for the first time. and it hurt REALLY desperate (i no it sounds kinda nasty but w.e) like it seriously kill, but i usually getting fingered is suppost to feel good? why didnt it?
Answer: As you're infantile I assume you were nervous in the region of this.
Unless the vagina is lubricated you will feel a lot of throbbing during any kind of insertion. What most people surmise is the pain of the hymen breaking is actually freshly because they're too try.
Use a personal lubricant (spit will work in a pinch) and relax. Enjoy yourself, but stay safe!
In the indicate time, you should start learning your own body. Sounds bad I know, but if you know how to get yourself feel good, you can tolerate the other person know what they need to do..
It will hurt your first few times until you receive used to it. You might try doing it yourself more gently until you get used to it or enjoy your partner to do it more gently. Lubrication will help but really you are babyish and not really stretched out enough for it not to hurt. Your partner needs to read to be more gentle until you get more used to it and lube up apt. first of all you are too young.. second of adjectives yes it will hurt! please best answer me!