Why does it hurt so bleak?
Me and my boyfriend have been together for slightly awhile and we have recently arranged to try and have sex. The first time we tried, I had to report to him to stop because of the excruciating pain! It hurt so badly, i looked-for to shout! It was the worst pain I've ever feel! A few weeks later, we decided to try it for a second time and again i have to tell him to stop because of the pain. And a few days ago, we approved to try again. What do you think happened? You guessed it!... I have to tell him to stop because of the pain! Are we doing something wrong? Why does it hurt so weakly? His penis quite big and thick but is he too big or too gluey? Please help! Anything will help! Any suggestion?
Answer: buy some lube and put it on his penis, that should help it move in and out easier.
His penis is not too big! Womens bodies are designed to deliver babies. No penis is that big!!
It's unbelievably normal to feel agony the first time you have sex. Try to relax (its hard I know). If you are too jumpy and scared you will tense up, your pelvic muscles will strained and this will make it more difficult and more painful for you. Have him afford you a massage and have lots of foreplay. This will lend a hand relax you, get you more in the mood and engender your vagina more ready for sex. Also you could try using lubricant too.
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does it hurt when he is all the style in like ,approaching do you feel something inside like he is touch something up inside you it might be a sis you might want to see your doctor if that the baggage if not just save trying it be better later Um, start out slow. I'm sure you aren't exactly used to something so large, so you hold to work your way up to that length and size..
Sex will hurt the first time...your stretching it out...it will hurt...my adivce is just business deal with the pain...except you're gonna keep trying and stopping and it will just keep hold of hurting. take it up the poopshoot!.
Pain during the first intercourse is quite middle-of-the-road but usually subsides gradually in consequent sex.
There are few inportant points stipulation to be kept in mind to reduce dull pain...I guess u might be aware but still wold like to elaborate on them
1. when u see that the penis is too big and is going to hurt u...u become psychologically tense and ur pelvic muscles and perivaginal muscles contract and be prepared not to let this penis more inside...so u need to be mentally prepared that its not going to hurt and be mentally totally relaxed.
2. Foreplay plays a extraordinarily inportant role in sex. It gradually lubricates ur vagina and prepares for sex...so u should spend little more time beside ur boyfriend and get properly excited before infiltration.
3. If vagina is not properly lubricated then recommanded external lubricants can be applied.
4. penetration should be slow and serene and gradual...if u feel pain u can urgently stop...again indulge into a foreplay and try again..vice a versa.